Most times we don't plan for "moments", they just happen.
A few days ago my two oldest children, myself and my husband where installing some windows on a beautiful spring day.
It's been a very long time since just the 4 of us have worked together on anything, usually my youngest daughter is home so it is either all of us, or various combinations.
It was one of the nicest evenings that I've had in a long time, having us all work together. My son and daughter seem to be over the hump of moodiness and uneven development, they are starting to be on the same page in development again, almost like when they where small and used to dance together (their picture sits on my desk).
How do you get a "moment"? You usually can't plan them, but you can set yourself up to having more of them.
What does it take?
You all need to be together.
You need a common objective that suits everyone.
You need patience and a calm, happy atmosphere.
That's about it.
Sometimes parents make date nights with their kids, either alone or in various combinations.
It could be something similar. Or it could be a family project. It could be game night too.
It just needs to be something everyone is interested in so there are no "sour grapes" (nothing spoils a moment faster!)
Have a "moment" with your family. It will last a lifetime.
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